Let’s Find the Magic: Tuning into the “Sparks” in Your Child’s Day!

Do you ever feel like you’re caught in the whirlwind of daily life? If you’re anything like me, you want to be a peaceful, loving parent who raises resilient children, but some days it honestly feels like a battle just to get through the routine of cleaning, cooking, and school pickups.

We often get overwhelmed by the day-to-day things, causing us to feel drained and tired. But what if I told you there is a simple yet profound way to tap into the “more” of life—those moments that make us happy and fulfilled? It involves recognizing and honoring the “Sparks” in your child’s world.

What Exactly Are These “Sparks”?
Sparks are the meaningful moments in a child’s day that evoke a strong emotional response. They are key opportunities to connect with your child.
These special moments often involve:
• A feeling of awe and wonder.
• An engagement in creativity.
• A surge of emotion like happiness, curiosity, or even fear.
• A deep connection felt towards a friend, family member, pet, or even an inanimate object through imagination.
A Spark might be a significant event, like a crisis or trauma, or simply an everyday happening that causes questions to arise for your child. By paying attention to these Sparks, we get a glimpse into their lived experiences and offer them ways to make sense and meaning of the world.

Does this idea resonate with you? Let me know if you notice any sparks in your day or in your children’s day.